The Natural Way to Attract People on Facebook With Magnetic Attraction

If you are building You Inc business, you should know your target market. How to know more people in your target market? The fastest way is through Facebook group. Join Facebook groups that are relevant to your target market. You can add them to become your friends. BUT, if they don’t know you, they may not approve it although they know that you are from the same group.  When you have many pending requests for friends, you will get a warning from Facebook.  One thing that you should not do on Facebook group is to promote your business directly unless the Facebook group is for the purpose for business promotion.  You will be expelled from the group; people dislike you and you are building a bad reputation instead of good reputation.

Magnetic Attraction Tips for Facebook

Here is my 8 magnetic attraction tips for facebook:

  1.  Show your support for other people. Don’t be selfish, but be friendly. You only care to post your blog content, but you never make comments for others or to give support by clicking LIKE.
  2. Write a few words before you attach your blog post.  If you write a blog post with killer title, people will click to read the link to read more.  You will get more comments.
  3. You can add people who give you comments or LIKE. People who are giving comments are people who are likely attracted to you. They know you and they are likely to approve your friend’s request. Send a courteous message along with your friend’s request.
  4. When you are making a comment, you should show your expertise and authority in your comment. Write power words, best advice to attract people to see your comment. How to learn the power words? You can learn power words from powerful people such as Dale Carnegie, Darren Hardy etc. But, the best way is as you learn more, you become more and you have your own power words. A leader in a business is a professional student of learning. They never stop learning.
  5. Inspirational quotes, videos or pictures attract people.
  6. I find that asking relevant questions or making a statement attract people more than inspirational quote because they come from your own words. It reflects your expertise or authority.
  7. Give appreciation or thank to people who make comments for your post on Facebook group.
  8. If you want to market to people in your region or locally, you should search Facebook group for your region, keywords+your region.

I find myself receive friend’s requests every day by applying magnetic attraction tips above. I don’t need to add friends. I always asked them courteously how they came across my name. They answered that they knew me from certain Facebook group.

Here is an example of how my comment gets the most votes or likes from people:

because  the conversation is too long, I cut it short.  Here is what Adil said that my answer deserved  the best answer:

People found me and added me to be her friend:

By applying my 8 magnetic attraction tips above on Facebook groups, you will attract people in your target market naturally.  You will receive new friends request everyday. You don’t need to browse people’s info and to make judgment whether you shall add her/him. Your Facebook account will not be banned by Facebook because you don’t violate the policy of adding people you don’t know. Remember, build relationship with your new friends first.

As always, I appreciate your sharing and feedback on facebook marketing.





Hello, I'm Viviana, working with small business owners and individuals who want to create a fulfilling business or a career by monetizing your passion, purpose and personal values. Believe in yourself to create the perfect lifestyle in life and business you want to have and expand your capacity.

  • Angelica (Gellie) Rondolo says:

    Hi Viviana, great contents here for someone who would like to start their business the right and ethical way specially using an online approach, but can also be applied and well appreciated for offline mode as well.

    Thank you for sharing and I could see your heart explaining these 8 POWERFUL tips…stay blessed dear and looking forward to learning more from you, cheers 🙂

    • Viviana says:

      Hi Angelica, thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a comment here..Yes, building relationship naturally is the best.

  • Hi Vivianna,

    Thanks for the great list of Facebook do’s and don’ts. It has to do with the process of branding yourself in the sea of humanity that uses Facebook. Hopefully, you can show yourself to be the loveable, honest person that you are, and that people want to hear what you have to say, whether it be a story, or a promotion for whatever you might sell.

    Have a great day, Vivianna!


    • Viviana says:

      Hi Lou, thank you for your comment. Yes, brand yourself and rise yourself to be trustworthy so whatever you say, they will be crazy about your products etc..

  • Hi Viviana! Great tip about finding your target audience using facebook groups. It all comes down to connecting with people, doesn’t it? Even if you find your target audience, whether it’s facebook or elsewhere, you want to listen more than talk. Otherwise, you come across as a spammer.

    To attract the right kind of people to our business, we have to BECOME like those people. Thanks for sharing another great tip!
    Srinivas Reddy | Ask Sage recently posted…How To Strike Out On Your OwnMy Profile

    • Viviana says:

      Thank you for the tip, Srinivas. You’re so right, we need to BECOME like them. Understand their need.

  • Hezi says:

    I would add that when I make a new friend request I add the person to a list called “AAA_pendind”, so I can keep track of people and see that they are confirming my request. There is a rumor that Facebook doesn’t like that you have too many unconfirmed friend request.
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  • Hi Viviana,

    Facebook group is huge for me. I use it alot and it generates such great traffic

    because it is a targeted audience.

    I have noticed that because alot of people spam the group, the person who gives

    value to the group stands out and get noticed.

    I have made great networking friends from the groups and the tips you have given us

    are so cool. There is absolutely no way a networker would follow your tips and

    would not be a STAR.

    Thanks for reminding me of these endearing tips.

    • Viviana says:

      Thank you Tosin for sharing your view. Facebook is a free and great platform to build our reputation online.

  • Easther says:

    Hi Vivian,
    These are really wonderful tips!! Facebook pages are really effective when they are used in the right manner.


    • Viviana says:

      Thank you Easther for wonderful compliment too. Right, we should have the right manner/social etiquette on Facebook too.

  • Great tips Viviana, I use a lot facebook groups and pages and it’s one of my biggest source of traffic.

    I have 3 facebook groups and 1 page and what I hate the most is when people continue to post spam messages just to promote an affiliate link. This is really irritating and most of the times I don’t just delete these posts but I actually ban these members.

    Posting that kind of messages is a sure way to build a bad reputation without even getting traffic to your link since most group admins just delete these messages…
    Kostas@Online Opportunities recently posted…10 Tips for Small Business SEOMy Profile

    • Viviana says:

      Hi Kostas, i notice that posting/pushing our business will not get responses. Thank you for sharing your own experiences.

  • JosephJYoung says:

    Hi Viviana,
    The list of 8 tips is really good. Listening is so key to being able to communicate effectively with others. We cannot receive from others if we do not unselfishly give to others. Everyone loves to be listened to and cared for even if it is a simple “like” on their comment.
    JosephJYoung recently posted…The Truth Shall Make You FreeMy Profile

    • Viviana says:

      Hi Joseph, thank you for your comment. I know now that listening is important, business owner need to be caring and listen to the customer so they can provide the right solution.

  • Great post Viviana. I love Facebook and get so much value, traffic and business from it:)

    I think the key thing with any marketing activity is to give first, to share value and be as creative and different as you can. I really love your question idea, this is unique and as you can see from your results works well:)
    Lilach Bullock recently posted…How often should you write a blog post?My Profile

    • Viviana says:

      Hi Lilach, you’re social media expert and I’m learning from you too. Facebook marketing is fun, i love playing with my marketing messages. You’re so right, creativity and be unique are the key values. Thanks for compliment too.

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