Many don’t realize what is holding them back comes from their fear in the past. I did have an old belief that I was not good in selling, or I hate selling. I made a point that I wouldn’t involve myself into selling and marketing. I had rejections in the past. Would I give up selling and marketing?
If you see the iceberg in the picture, you will see that our subconscious mind (the iceberg part below the surface of the water) is bigger than our conscious mind. Subconscious mind is controlling our habits.
Address and heal our past experience first. Heal our hurt and break the habits in the past. Once you let go of old belief, start replacing with a new belief. Adopt positive affirmation to become your new belief so you will start to acquire new habits.